One of the most precious memories to keep is photos of your loved ones. Especially the elderly family members that are close to you. Friends come and go, but family lasts. So think very carefully about the list you give to your photographer, they last a life time!
A Good Structured Group, Family & Friends Photo List:
20% Group - One or two formal photos, one or two creative and more relaxed photos
50% Family - Immediate family, parents, brothers, sisters, then grandparents and one big family photo
10% Bridal Party - Brides maids, best men, flower girl, ring barer, ect.
20% Friends - One or two close friends photos, one or two creative and more relaxed photos
This is just an out line that works well because you cover everyone on the guest list while you still get the photos that are very important. Also keep in mind that the longer the group photos take, the less time you will have for couple photos, make sure to discuss a detailed time schedule with your photographer on this.